No one can deal with «forever». Don’t dwell on the idea of never having another cigarette as long as you live. That can lead to obsession and can be self-defeating. Instead, concentrate on making it through just this one day. Tomorrow will take care of itself.
Get rid of all your cigarettes and all reminders of smoking, such as matches and ashtrays. The worst thing to do is to keep a pack of cigarettes nearby to «prove» that you don’t need them any longer.
Recognise that there will be some very difficult times, and keep to your game plan of coping strategies for situations in which you’d normally smoke. You’re going to take it one step, one day, one craving at a time.
In a very real way, you’re like the alcoholic who must recognise his or her own weakness in this regard. You are addicted to a deadly drug. The withdrawal period is a very real physical condition. But don’t panic. Many millions of others who have become ex-smokers have gone cold turkey and they did it the same way, one day at a time.
During those first few days, you may well notice that your mind wanders and it’s more difficult to concentrate. That’s a natural reaction, a part of the withdrawal process. It’s not a sign that you are unique and that you need nicotine to function properly.
Be aware of a disturbing paradox. As you stop smoking, your lungs will begin to regenerate, and to slough damaged tissue. You’re going to cough more now than when you smoked. Again, this is natural and it affects just about everyone in the same way.
The only truly terrible mistake you can make is to smoke «just one» cigarette to get you through a particularly tough craving. Don’t even take «just one» drag on someone else’s. Logically, you think it would make it easier, but in truth it just makes it more difficult and could destroy your effort.
You may find yourself literally pacing the floor like a caged animal. You’ll experience a kind of inner explosive force that begs to be released. So release it. But not by giving in to having a cigarette. Take a walk around the block. Do some serious deep breathing. Meditate. Take a bath or shower.
Be aware that cravings are transient. Each one passes. No craving goes on indefinitely. Recognise that fact as the craving hits, and work your way through it. As time goes on, those cravings will be less intense and will become more and more infrequent. Each day will be easier than the day before. But concentrate on this day. One day at a time.
Here are some coping strategies to help you make it through this particular day:
Meals
Get up from the table immediately after eating
Start washing the dishes and cleaning the table
Avoid coffee, tea and alcohol
Brush teeth frequently. Floss often.
Coffee Breaks
Practise deep breathing instead of taking a break
Go for a walk
Do some stretching exercises
Drink water or juice instead of coffee
Fiddle with a pencil, toothpick, or swizzle stick
Telephone Calls/Conversations
• Keep a supply of pencils, swizzle sticks near by
Work a rosary or worry beads through your fingers
Suck on hard lollies
Keep conversations short
Television
Go to the movies instead
Nibble on carrot sticks and pretzels
Sit on the floor rather than in a regular chair
Driving the Car
Spray deodoriser to scent the air in the car
Keep both hands on the wheel (a good idea anyway)
Concentrate on the road ahead
Do stomach-tightening exercises
There are also some general strategies that make those first days easier:
Drink Lots of Water
Enjoy ice tinkling in a glass of cold water
Celebrate yourself by using a nice wine glass
Visualise the poisons of smoking being voided in your urine
Develop Hobbies Using Both Hands
Knitting, crocheting, needlepoint
Gardening and fix-up work
Building model ships and planes
Alternative Activities and Thoughts
Walking
Stretching
Deep Breathing
Meditation
Prayer: this is a great time to ask for help!
Frequently Review Reasons to Not Smoke
Improved health
Recovery of your heart
Feeling terrific
Improved athletic performance
Improved sexual performance
Freedom from matches and ashtrays
Fitting into the Smoke-free Society
Saving money
Self-control
Feeling of pride in accomplishment
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